Resources and Strategies for Parents to Address Gun Violence and School Shootings
Preferred Behavioral Health Group (PBHG) CEO, Dr. Tara Chalakani, spoke on the NJ Morning Show today to provide strategies for parents on how to talk to their children in the wake of recent events, gun violence, and school shootings. These tragedies are not only heart-wrenching but also pose significant challenges for parents trying to support their children through these difficult times. PBHG can also help guide our trauma-informed counselors in more challenging situations. Here are a few points about how to talk with children about recent events.
Talking to Your Children About Violence
When it comes to discussing gun violence and school shootings with your children, the approach should be tailored to their age and emotional maturity:
- Preschool and Kindergarten: For young children, keep explanations simple and reassuring. A brief statement that emphasizes safety and the presence of heroes can be comforting.
- Elementary School Children: Shield them from graphic images and limit exposure to news coverage. Focus on positive actions taken by others and reinforce safety measures.
- Tweens: Engage in conversations about their feelings and thoughts. Use these discussions to impart your values and provide emotional support without overwhelming them with details.
- Teens: Allow teens to express their feelings and concerns. They may seek solutions and expect to hear about actions being taken to prevent such tragedies. Encourage open dialogue and involve them in discussions about potential solutions and community actions.
Resources for Parents
Several organizations provide valuable resources to help families navigate these challenges:
- Sandy Hook Promise offers crucial information about gun violence and prevention strategies.
- Today provides age-appropriate guidance on talking to children about shootings.
- Brady United focuses on firearm safety.
- Iowa State University Extension offers advice on helping children cope with emotional responses to violence.
- Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA) provides insights into managing fears related to school shootings.
As we continue to address these pressing issues, our collective efforts to support and protect our children are more important than ever. By staying informed and utilizing available resources, we can make a meaningful impact and work towards a safer future for all.
